Reconnecting After Distance
Use these scripts as a starting point when you would like to re-engage with a contact after some distance.
You can use these scripts as a starting point when you would like to re-engage with a contact after some distance.
“I’ve been thinking about you and wondering if you’d be open to talking.”
“I know things have been quiet between us for a while, and I understand why. I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting and would like to see if there’s space for us to talk again when you’re ready.”
“I’d like to begin rebuilding our relationship slowly.”
“I don’t expect things to go back to how they were, and I don’t want to rush anything. I just hope we can start with something small and see how it feels for both of us.”
“I’ve spent some time thinking about what happened and how I contributed to the distance between us. I’d like a chance to share that with you. I don’t want to erase the past, but start working through it.”
“I’m not asking for an answer right now. I just wanted to let you know that I care about you and I’m open to reconnecting if that ever feels right for you.”