How to Set Boundaries with Red Flags

This script will help you learn exactly what to say when faced with common red flags in your relationships.

Red flag: They pressure you to move too fast.

Response: "I really like getting to know you, but I want to take things at a pace that feels right for me. I don't want to do X right now."

Red flag: They belittle your feelings.Response: "I don’t expect you to always agree with me, but I need my feelings to be respected."

Red flag: They won’t define the relationship and are stringing you along.Response: "I like clarity in my relationships. If we’re not on the same page about what we want, I respect that, but I don’t like the confusion."

Red flag: They try to play games or to make you jealous.

Response: "I’m not interested in playing games. If you want to be with me, be with me. If you’re looking for someone to compete for your attention, I’m not that person."